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		<title>Road Trip Wednesaday: Linkage</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/road-trip-wednesaday-linkage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:54:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday, YA Highway wants to know:
What are your favorite reading and writing links?
I read a lot of blogs. Seriously, my Google Reader is working overtime. Sometimes I think I read too many blogs, but I just can&#8217;t bring myself to pull any of them off the reader (I will admit [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/gothgirlrising.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1358" title="gothgirlrising" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/gothgirlrising-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday, <a href="http://yahighway.com" target="_blank">YA Highway</a> wants to know:</p>
<p><strong><em>What are your favorite reading and writing links?</em></strong></p>
<p>I read a lot of blogs. Seriously, my Google Reader is working overtime. Sometimes I think I read <em>too many</em> blogs, but I just can&#8217;t bring myself to pull any of them off the reader (I will admit to skimming some of them and only reading the ones that really jump out at me).</p>
<p>Remember<a href="What are your favorite reading and writing links?" target="_blank"> last week</a> when we talked about procrastination? Well, I have  learned that reading blogs is a <strong>super</strong> procrastinatory tool, which is why I am only sharing <em><strong>ONE</strong></em> link with y&#8217;all today. Because, come on, I don&#8217;t want to be partially responsible for your superb ability to not get anything done.</p>
<p>I thought about not putting any links in this post and just directing you to my sidebar and the YA Highway blog, but I do have one site that just begs to be shared.</p>
<p>YA/MG Author Barry Lyga has a <a href="http://www.barrylyga.com/new/blog-writing-advice.html" target="_blank">wonderful series of writing advice</a> up on his blog. If you are a writer (or are even contemplating writing a book), these are must reads. His advice is honest and funny and to the point. He covers topics in great detail that many others simply gloss over. I absolutely love reading Barry&#8217;s blogs and have learned so much about my own writing by listening to what he has to say. I admit that I have not read any of Barry&#8217;s books, but after stumbling across and reading his blog, they have been added to the top of my to-be-read list.</p>
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		<title>Hold the pickles</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 01:12:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Publishing]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[We live in a fast food world. By being able to get nearly everything we want, from food to money to marriage, without ever leaving our cars, we have been programmed to expect instant gratification. Be honest, how many times have your feathers been ruffled by a wait? We are used to things happening fast, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/fast-food-restaurants.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1354" title="fast-food-restaurants" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/fast-food-restaurants-300x167.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="167" /></a>We live in a fast food world. By being able to get nearly everything we want, from food to money to<a href="http://www.chapelsoflasvegas.com/drivethruweddings.htm" target="_blank"> marriage</a>, without ever leaving our cars, we have been programmed to expect instant gratification. Be honest, how many times have your feathers been ruffled by a wait? We are used to things happening fast, and when they don&#8217;t we get upset.</p>
<p>This is a no-good situation for a writer. See, publishing is S.L.O.W. It takes time to write a book, it takes time to revise a book. Once a book is ready, it takes time to query agents and get their responses. It takes time to hear back from publishers once your agent starts submitting your work. And once a book is sold, it takes a lot of time to get it on the shelves.</p>
<p>Things don&#8217;t move quickly, and even this is a perfect example. What happens when a writer doesn&#8217;t move from step A to B to C to D to E in a nice sequential order? What happens when one moves from A to B to C (C, in this sequence is finding an agent, just so we are still on the same page), only to experience failure?</p>
<p>Writers need to be persistent little buggers. This is a business that is largely subjective and setbacks and failures along the way are par for the course. I fear that too many people have so subscribed to the <strong>fast-food ideal</strong> of life&#8211;expecting everything to come quickly&#8211;and will give up when the path is no longer easy.</p>
<p>Friends: <em>we cannot do this!</em> Remember that not everything in life comes as quickly and easily as pushing a meal through a window. We need to take the time to nurture our craft, to write the best books we can, and to fight to see them on the shelves. If a book fails? We need to spend time working on the next one. And the next, and the next.</p>
<p>This business takes time and persistence. Don&#8217;t let yourself get discouraged and give up because things aren&#8217;t moving as quickly or as smoothly as you hoped. Keep working, keep pushing, and eventually you will make it!</p>
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		<title>50 degrees and flying high</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/50-degrees-and-flying-high/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 22:02:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My shiny new car just informed me that it is 50 degrees out! Of, course, the car has been sitting in the sun with no airflow around it for 5 hours, but the thermometer said 50º nonetheless.
I have lived in Montana long enough to know this isn&#8217;t the end of Winter. We will have more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My shiny new car just informed me that it is 50 degrees out! Of, course, the car has been sitting in the sun with no airflow around it for 5 hours, but the thermometer said 50º nonetheless.</p>
<p>I have lived in Montana long enough to know this isn&#8217;t the end of Winter. We will have more snow, and more blustery wind, and more really-freaking-cold days, but 50º is 50º and I am excited. Hey, if we can&#8217;t get excited about the little things in life, then what are we living for?</p>
<p>In celebration* of Montana&#8217;s pseudo-spring, I am launching a fun, fabulous giveaway! I have <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">one</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">two</span> <strong>three</strong> signed books to giveaway. And since we are celebrating the wonderful 50º weather, I am going to base my giveaway on fifties.</p>
<p>So, see that fun little Google Friend Connect widget over in the sidebar? (&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&gt;) Once I have <strong>50 </strong>smiling faces over there, I will put one book in the giveaway pool. If I get <strong>50 more</strong>, a second book will be added. And, if I get <strong>50 more than that</strong>, the third book will be added to the pool. What are the fabulous books I speak of? I thought you would never ask. They are:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://watchmebe.livejournal.com/515361.html" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-779  aligncenter" title="As You Wish" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/9780061661525.jpg" alt="" width="342" height="518" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://carrieryan.com/forest-hands-teeth.php" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1089" title="the-forest-of-hands-and-teeth" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/the-forest-of-hands-and-teeth-677x1024.jpg" alt="" width="347" height="524" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://writerjenn.livejournal.com/112201.html" target="_blank"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-1334" title="Secret Year" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/Secret-Year-677x1024.jpg" alt="" width="347" height="524" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">I loved all three of these books! They are completely different from each other, but each is wonderful in its own way. I can&#8217;t wait to share them with you, so make sure you are following for a chance to win!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Oh, what&#8217;s that you say? You need a deadline for the contest? Okay, I suppose I can do that. Since the best part of spring is my birthday** (obviously), I will end the contest then (or thereabouts). So, assuming we have at least 50 followers by <strong>April 27th</strong>, there will be much book-giveaway-ery to celebrate the 26th anniversary of my birth.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Now I am going to stare out the window for a while and wish I could be enjoying this beautiful weather. Good day to you all!</p>
<p>*Okay, so I had planned the giveaway before the great weather. Whatever. I am still using it as a fair-weather celebration.</p>
<p>**I know, I know. We aren&#8217;t supposed to get so giddy about our birthdays after we are about 13 or 14, but I refuse to give in to such boring traditions. I want to find joy in the simple things, so I will be ridiculously excited about my birthday!</p>
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		<title>Wiley Kendle was right</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/wiley-kendle-was-right/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 23:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first semester of my junior year in high school, I took an athletic training class. I loved the teacher so much that I took his anatomy class the second semester. And his 2-hour Med Prep class both semesters senior year.
Seriously, I loved Wiley Kendle as a teacher. It has been eight years since I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1337" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 330px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/kendle.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1337" title="kendle" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/kendle.jpg" alt="" width="320" height="400" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Either this picture is old, or he hasn&#39;t aged one day since I was in high school...</p></div>
<p>The first semester of my junior year in high school, I took an athletic training class. I loved the teacher so much that I took his anatomy class the second semester. And his 2-hour Med Prep class both semesters senior year.</p>
<p>Seriously, I <em>loved</em> Wiley Kendle as a teacher. It has been eight years since I have been in one of his classes, but I still think about him regularly, partly because he has this great, acerbic sense of humor, and partly because he repeatedly gave a bit of advice most high school teachers would not.</p>
<p>Every so often, Mr. Kendall would impress upon our young minds that four-year college is not for everyone. That&#8217;s not to say he wasn&#8217;t supporting education beyond high school–he absolutely was. He would stress the importance of finding what works best for you, whether that be a trade school, some sort of apprenticeship, or just working for a couple years to figure your life out.</p>
<p>College is stressed so much is high school that many teenagers forget to really experience their adolescence because they are so focused on getting into university and learning some more. But–and this is a shock–not all kids are the same! Which means not all kids will flourish in a university setting after high school.</p>
<p>Of course, the whole time Wiley Kendle was telling me this, I was sitting in the front row (like the little over-achiever I was) thinking, <em>pshhh&#8230;.whatever, I am totally going to a four-year university.</em> So I did. And you know what? It wasn&#8217;t the right place for me at the time. Sure, I had a great time and met a lot of wonderful people and did well, but in retrospect, I can see that I should have listened more carefully to the wise words of Mr. Kendall.</p>
<p>(For the record: I am not opposed to a traditional college education, and am now at a place in my life where university would be a great learning environment for me. When I left high school, however, there were other options that were perhaps better than university.)</p>
<p>So, <a href="http://rachelbateman.com/2010/02/college-talk/" target="_blank">when people ask me</a> what they should study in college if they want to become a writer, I tell them to study what they are passionate about. But it goes much further than that. Each individual person needs to decide what they are passionate about and then pursue that in any way she can. Maybe that means she doesn&#8217;t go to a traditional college, but instead heads off to a cosmetology academy or massage therapy school. Possibly she trades in a diploma for an apprenticeship with a diesel mechanic. Or, maybe she doesn&#8217;t yet know at the age of 18 what she wants to do, so she finds any job she can that will help her pay the bills until she does figure it out.</p>
<p>When deciding what to do with your life, evaluate what is important to you and what you love. Maybe university really is the best place for you to go right out of high school. If so, good luck! If not, don&#8217;t let others make you feel like you are less than you are because of that choice. Take control of your own life and do what will make you happy.</p>
<p>There is nothing wrong with not wanting to go to college. (Disclaimer: there is a problem if you want to leech off your parents for eternity without ever stepping out on your own. Not wanting to go to college is one thing; being lazy is something else entirely.) And when it comes to being a writer, college doesn&#8217;t mean a damn thing.</p>
<p>You know what is important though? Life experience. No amount of learning in a classroom will teach you the things  you will learn when you are out in the real world. The experiences we have help to mold us and help define who we are. We learn and grow more through real life than we ever will in a classroom. So, get any education you can. I believe we should never stop learning. But don&#8217;t forget to go live a little on the way.</p>
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		<title>Road Trip Wednesday: Procrastination Station</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/road-trip-wednesday-procrastination-station/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Mar 2010 15:30:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday, the lovely ladies at YA Highway want to know:
The ways you procrastinate. You know. If you get around to it. 
I have a problem: I am a sneaky procrastinator. I don&#8217;t mean that I hide my procrastination from others. I hide it from myself. When I just don&#8217;t feel [...]]]></description>
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<p>For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday, the lovely ladies at <a href="http://yahighway.com" target="_blank">YA Highway</a> want to know:</p>
<p><strong>The ways you procrastinate. You know. If you get around to it. </strong></p>
<p>I have a problem: I am a sneaky procrastinator. I don&#8217;t mean that I hide my procrastination from others. I hide it from myself. When I just don&#8217;t feel like working on my novel, I will do something like write blog post. &#8216;Cause my blog is important too, so it&#8217;s not <em>really</em> procrastinating, is it? Or I will start researching things I don&#8217;t <em>really</em> need to know, but they are related to the book I am working on now, so they might be important some day, right? So that&#8217;s not really procrastinating either, is it? <strong>Is it?!</strong></p>
<p>See, sneaky procrastinator.</p>
<p>I used to have a whole roundup of websites I would check often (<a href="http://www.fmylife.com/" target="_blank">FML</a>, <a href="http://mylifeisaverage.com/" target="_blank">MLIA</a>, <a href="http://failblog.org/" target="_blank">FAILblog</a>, <a href="http://photoshopdisasters.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">PhotoShopDisaters</a>, <a href="http://whatiwore.tumblr.com/" target="_blank">WhatIWore</a>, and a few others I can&#8217;t remember now), and those were great tools for procrastination. But one day I just stopped going to those sites. I haven&#8217;t looked at any of them in months now, so they are out when it comes to procrastination.</p>
<p>I am good about actually sitting down to write (probably too good&#8230;my poor house–and husband–gets neglected far too often), so pretty much, my only procrastination when it comes down to it is blogging. And sometime obsessively checking my email, but only if I am expecting something (like I am <strong>now</strong>–why, oh why isn&#8217;t it here yet?). Even so, if I find myself procrastinating too much, I just flip the little switch on the front of my netbook and turn my internet access off. Easy-peasy.</p>
<p>Your turn! What is your favorite procrastinatory outlet?</p>
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		<title>Like, whoa</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/like-whoa/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 22:49:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Remember how I have been super excited for Kiersten White&#8217;s debut novel, Paranormalcy, for quite some time? Well, the lovely Weronika Janczuk (if you don&#8217;t read her blog already, you totally should) is giving away not one, but two preorders (&#8217;cause it doesn&#8217;t release until September 21st) of Paranormalcy.
Um, SQUEE!
I am getting this book whether [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/2010/01/anticipation/" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/whoa.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1330" title="whoa" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/whoa.jpg" alt="" width="375" height="500" /></a>Remember how I have been super excited for <a href="http://kierstenwhite.com" target="_blank">Kiersten White&#8217;s</a> debut novel, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Paranormalcy-Kiersten-White/dp/0061985848/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1267569530&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank"><em>Paranormalcy</em></a>, for quite some time? Well, the lovely Weronika Janczuk (if you don&#8217;t read her blog already, you totally should) is giving away not one, but <strong>two</strong> preorders (&#8217;cause it doesn&#8217;t release until September 21st) of <em>Paranormalcy</em>.</p>
<p>Um, SQUEE!</p>
<p>I am getting this book whether I win it or not, but getting a book you want for free is always a great thing.</p>
<p>Other fabulous prizes include blog interviews, a second free book (of the winner&#8217;s choosing), and partial manuscript critiques (or something else for those non-writers out there).</p>
<p>This is a great contest, guys. <a href="http://www.weronikajanczuk.com/2010/03/500-follows-book-prize-giveaway.html" target="_blank">Head over and enter now. </a></p>
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		<title>Fast Five&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://rachelbateman.com/2010/03/fast-five-3/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 19:09:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8230;Confessions!
1. I do Fast Five&#8230; posts when I can&#8217;t focus long enough to blog about a single thing. I have a list of blog ideas waiting for when I get my focus back.
2. I don&#8217;t think baby sonograms are cute. I actually think they are more creepy than anything. And the fancy-pants 3D sonograms? Even [...]]]></description>
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<p>1. I do <strong>Fast Five&#8230;</strong> posts when I can&#8217;t focus long enough to blog about a single thing. I have a list of blog ideas waiting for when I get my focus back.</p>
<p>2. I don&#8217;t think baby sonograms are cute. I actually think they are more creepy than anything. And the fancy-pants 3D sonograms? Even creepier.</p>
<p>3. I think grand, fancy weddings are beautiful and fun, but I also think it is stupid to spend that much money on one day. Same with the fancy wedding dresses. Spending a ton of money on a dress you will wear for maybe six hours of your life? Stupid.</p>
<p>4. I have studied the human body a lot, and I know how improper nutrition affects us. I understand wholly why exercise is important. Yet I still eat poorly and don&#8217;t exercise nearly as much as I should.</p>
<p>5. To save the best confession for last: I am officially announcing a fun and fabulous blog giveaway next week. It will involve three signed books. And possibly more fun goodness, depending on my mood. Anyone who is following through Google Friend Connect (see sidebar ––––&gt;) by the time the announcement goes up, will automatically get another shot at the drawing. I wasn&#8217;t going to announce this ahead of time (&#8217;cause, really, my 9 followers should get extra props for not having to be bribed <img src='http://rachelbateman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  ), but this is confession time, so why not?</p>
<p><em><strong>Your turn!</strong></em> Leave a confession in the comments. Come on, you know you want to!</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The topic of YA Lit Chat on Twitter a couple weeks ago was trend in YA. I participated in a small chunk of the chat, but left early once I realized:
Why am I spending time talking about trends instead of writing? 
Anyone who reads can recognize certain trends rolling through books, YA or otherwise. You [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1305" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/being-cool-1980s-fashion.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1305" title="80s Fashion" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/being-cool-1980s-fashion-300x170.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="170" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This is a trend I can get behind</p></div>
<p>The topic of YA Lit Chat on <a href="http://twitter.com/rachelbateman" target="_blank">Twitter</a> a couple weeks ago was <em>trend in YA.</em> I participated in a small chunk of the chat, but left early once I realized:</p>
<p><em>Why am I spending time talking about trends instead of writing? </em></p>
<p>Anyone who reads can recognize certain trends rolling through books, YA or otherwise. You may notice a rash of steampunk suddenly, or be overwhelmed by the number of Jane Austen odes on the bookstore shelves. One doesn&#8217;t need to be an avid reader to know vampires are big.</p>
<p>It is tempting to want to write a certain kind of story after seeing similar ones become so popular. There is that initial rush of <em>oh! people love werewolves right now&#8230;if I write werewolves, I will be IN!</em></p>
<p>Yeah&#8230;it doesn&#8217;t work like that, for many reasons.</p>
<p>First off: publishing is <strong>slow</strong>. Glaciers make the publishing industries look like bullet trains. By the time one writes a book, finds representation, finds a publisher, goes through rounds of edits, waits for the design team to do their thing, blah, blah, blah&#8230;.and the book <em>finally</em> makes it to the shelves, the trend ship has long sailed. Your book releases and you suddenly find yourself in a world where nobody cares about werewolves anymore. Your poor little book hunkers down on the shelf, making a permanent home for itself, while books about midget superheroes and functional families are being sold like hotcakes.</p>
<p>Secondly: market saturation. If there are 167 sasquatch novels on the shelves, why would you want to add #168? Wouldn&#8217;t you rather add something new, something fresh? Something original? I know I would. I also know that agents and publishers always have their eyes open for fresh new writing. What editor out there is going to want to pick up a book that is remarkably similar to one they already have on their list?</p>
<p>Number Three: Passion shows through in writing. When I read a book I can tell if a writer was passionate about her characters, her story, her work. When a writer is passionate about her book, that radiates off the pages and makes the book so much better. When a writer starts writing something just because they think it is <strong>the next big thing! </strong>that passion is just not there. And as a reader, I can sense that.</p>
<p>Now, don&#8217;t get me wrong here. While I don&#8217;t think anyone should try to write to trends, I also don&#8217;t think anyone should shy away from what they want to write <em>because</em> it is a trend. Strong new voices shine through every day, and you should never be scared to write what you want. Write the book you love, and work as hard as you can to make it great.</p>
<p>Okay, okay&#8230;I am almost done. One final thought on trends: in 1997, teenage girls did not know they wanted a movie about a sinking ship. But they did. They wanted it over and over again.</p>
<p>That is all.</p>
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		<title>Southern Fried Saturday: The Biltmore Estate</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 15:30:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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If you are an American, chances are you have heard the name Vanderbilt. As in, &#8220;no, I can&#8217;t buy you a brand new Maserati! Who do you think I am, a Vanderbilt?&#8221; The Vanderbilts were rich. But they weren&#8217;t just rich like the doctor down the street who buys all his teenagers brand new cars [...]]]></description>
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<p style="text-align: left;">If you are an American, chances are you have heard the name Vanderbilt. As in, &#8220;no, I can&#8217;t buy you a brand new Maserati! Who do you think I am, a Vanderbilt?&#8221; The Vanderbilts were rich. But they weren&#8217;t just rich like the doctor down the street who buys all his teenagers brand new cars because he hasn&#8217;t made the connection between young age and accident rates yet. They were <em>iconically</em> rich. Like, they are considered one of the <strong>seven</strong> wealthiest families in history (world, not just American) rich.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">In the 1800s, Cornelius Vanderbilt build railway and shipping empires. Good timing to get into shipping and railroads. He grew up in a modest home, and even after her had acquired his vast fortune, he continued to live in modest homes. His descendants were not so modest, however, and many of them used their inheritances to built opulent mansions.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">In the 1880s, George Washington Vanderbilt, youngest son of William Henry Vanderbilt and grandson of Cornelius, made many visits to the Ashville, NC area (one of the more beautiful areas I have been to). He decided he liked the area so much that he would build a summer estate there–one he called his &#8220;little mountain escape&#8221;. Except, um, it wasn&#8217;t little by any stretch of the imagination.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The Biltmore estate is the largest privately-owned home in the United States. It has 250 rooms in a whopping 175,000 square feet. That is one big house! I don&#8217;t know how anyone could ever consider it a &#8220;little mountain escape&#8221;. The estate has its own winery, village, and church. It is is very own, very expensive little community right there in the Blue Ridge Mountains.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">If you ever get the chance to visit Ashville (and I recommend you find that chance), make sure to check out the Biltmore Estate. It is pricey (admission prices help with the upkeep–old houses take a lot), and if you want to go into the main house you will need a reservation because it is busy, but is is <strong>amazing</strong>. Even if you can&#8217;t afford it or you didn&#8217;t think to reserve a ticket, it is worth a glance. Even just diving out and looking over the house and grounds from the roadway is pretty breathtaking.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Also, watch the movie <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0081376/" target="_blank"><em>The Private Eyes</em></a> for a little Biltmore goodness and a lot of laughs!</p>
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		<title>2010 Reading</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[At the end of last year, I joined the 2010 Debut Author challenge and promised to read and review at least 24 debut YA/MG books this year. I haven&#8217;t actually read any debuts yet, but I am stubborn so I know I will meet the challenge.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At the end of last year, <a href="http://rachelbateman.com/2009/12/2010-debut-author-challenge/" target="_blank">I joined</a> the 2010 Debut Author challenge and promised to read and review at least 24 debut YA/MG books this year. I haven&#8217;t actually read any debuts yet, but I am stubborn so I know I will meet the challenge.</p>
<p>I got to thinking today about how much I read. Some books take me a while to work my way through and others I finish in one reading. Either way, I go through a lot of books. In the past, I have tried to keep track of what I read, but I have never been very good at doing that. So, really this post is only for my benefit.</p>
<p>In this post I am going to list all the books I have read since the start of 2010. Each book I read will be added to the list. Then, at the end of the the year I can have a little party (with myself, of course) and look back on all the books I read. Fun times.</p>
<p>So&#8230;</p>
<h3>Books read in 2010</h3>
<p>*Part of the 2010 Debut Author Challenge</p>
<p>**Actually debuted in 2009, but so close to the end I am counting it in the 2010 Debut Author Challenge</p>
<p>1. <em>The Time Traveler&#8217;s Wife </em>by Audrey Niffenegger (January)</p>
<blockquote><p>I really enjoyed this one. The story is compelling and the writing is crisp. I do have to admit though: I didn&#8217;t like this book as much as I thought I would, and it didn&#8217;t grab me like it did a lot of my friends. Maybe my expectations were too high.</p></blockquote>
<p>2. <em>After</em> by Amy Efaw (January)</p>
<blockquote><p>The whole time I was reading this, I couldn&#8217;t decide whether I liked it or not. I still don&#8217;t know. But, I do know that I find myself thinking about it quite regularly, so I know it had quite a bit of impact. This probably is not one I will reread, but I am glad I read it once. Also, it has a great cover. <img src='http://rachelbateman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></blockquote>
<p>3. <em>Duma Key</em> by Stephen King (February)</p>
<blockquote><p>Except for <em>On Writing</em>, which I devoured and will read again and again, I have never read much of Uncle Stevie&#8217;s stuff. I read <em>Pet Sematary</em> (and, um, the movie <strong>still</strong> freaks me out) and <em>Thinner</em> when I was in middle school, and a ton of his short stories towards the end of elementary school and into middle school, but that is the extent of my Stephen King reading. Mom gave me this one for Christmas because it is one of her favorites. And, <strong>holy canole!!! </strong>this book is good. I love it!</p></blockquote>
<p>4. <em>Wicked Lovely</em> by Melissa Marr (February)</p>
<blockquote><p>I wanted to read this one when it first came out, but didn&#8217;t. The stack of books at home was big enough without adding another. Now it already has two sequels (and a third on the way). I finally picked it up because the YA bookclub in town is reading it for their February book. Why did I wait so long?! <em>Wicked Lovely</em> pulled me in immediately and I didn&#8217;t want to put it down ever. I love, love, loved this book and will have to devour the sequels soon. Also, I usually don&#8217;t like piercing on guys, but Seth is <em>hot.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>*5. <em>The Lonely Hearts Club</em> by Elizabeth Eulberg (February)**</p>
<blockquote><p>A book about a girl named Penny Lane who is obsessed with the Beatles and creates a non-dating girls club? The Beatles freak and teenage girl in me <em>had</em> to read this one. The story is fun. I didn&#8217;t like it as much as I had hoped to (mostly because some of it seemed like Eulberg way trying to sound <em>too</em> teenager), but I enjoyed reading it.</p></blockquote>
<p>6. <em>The Forest of Hands and Teeth</em> by Carrie Ryan (February)</p>
<blockquote><p>I had a nightmare about zombie cats after reading this book. No, there are no zombie cats in FHT (non-human animals are immune to the infection), but I am sure the book inspired the dream. This book was intense and scary and beautifully written. I can&#8217;t wait for the next one!</p></blockquote>
<p>*7. <em>The Secret Year</em> by Jennifer Hubbard</p>
<blockquote><p>This is one of those books that gives you a little slice of someone&#8217;s life. Yes, there is an overarching plot, and the main character goes through some changes and learns about himself, but really I just felt like I was along for the ride observing Colt&#8217;s life for a while. This was a quick read and I really enjoyed it.</p></blockquote>
<p>8. <em>The Dogs of Babel </em>by Carolyn Parkhurst</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 15:30:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I launched this website and blog to help keep myself more accountable for my writing. By telling people that I am doing this thing, that I am putting myself out there and really trying to be a real writer (I am still not sure what a fake writer looks like, but whatever), I feel more [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tumblr_kxic0p7fgx1qzhqngo1_500.jpg"><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1282" title="Girl on books" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/tumblr_kxic0p7fgx1qzhqngo1_500-300x231.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="231" /></a>I launched this website and blog to help keep myself more accountable for my writing. By telling people that I am <strong>doing</strong> this thing, that I am putting myself out there and really trying to be a <em>real writer</em> (I am still not sure what a fake writer looks like, but whatever), I feel more of a drive and obligation to keep working. I  mean obligation in a good way here, of course.</p>
<p>I am going to be honest here: I led a pretty privileged life growing up. Sure, my parents were divorced, but it really wasn&#8217;t that bad. They both stayed in the same town, didn&#8217;t make things messy when they split, and peaceably shared custody of me and my sister. While we were not rich, we were also not poor. We had the things we needed, and I got much of the stuff I <em>wanted.</em> I had chores to do and responsibilities, but I was essentially taken care of. I never felt fear that I would not have the necessities of life. I never had to fight or struggle for food, clothing, or comfort.</p>
<p>I was a good student. My grades were strong. When it came time for college-entrance exams, I only took one. I stayed up late the night before ACTs making cookies and was super tired when I showed up for the test in the morning. I scored a 32, which earned me a full-ride scholarship to college, so I didn&#8217;t bother taking the SAT.</p>
<p>Growing up, I was a BMX racer. I trained and practiced a lot, but I only did that to stay on top. I started out on top because it came naturally to me. Same thing with the drill team in high school. We had three days to prep for tryouts and I missed the first day. To be honest, I wasn&#8217;t planning on going to the tryouts at all after that, because I didn&#8217;t think I even wanted to be on the team, but a friend insisted I just show up. So I did, and it turns out I was <em>good</em>! So I did it. And I practiced to make myself better, but it was always quite easy for me.</p>
<p>I am not telling you all of this to make myself look good or to be narcissistic (though it totally reads that way, doesn&#8217;t it?). I am just making a point here that things have always come pretty naturally to me. I have not had to work hard (I mean <strong>really</strong> work) for really anything I have accomplished. And that scares me.</p>
<p>You see, writing comes naturally to me. <em>Good writing? </em>That is a completely different story. I have to work my tail off, just like any other writer out there, to really make my words sing. I have never put myself into something with such drive as I have my writing. Never before have I struggled so much to see positive results.</p>
<p>So of  course I start thinking ahead to when I query agents, or when a book goes onto submission with publishers. What if all I get are rejections? Will I be able to handle that? What will it feel like to be told the one thing I have had to really, really try for is just not good enough? It is easy to fail at something you haven&#8217;t invested yourself into. If you bomb a test you didn&#8217;t study for even a little bit, it stings, but really it doesn&#8217;t matter. All can be blamed on the lack of effort. If you fail at something you put the whole of yourself into, what can you blame then?</p>
<p>These thoughts and fears have led to some pretty rough times while writing. It becomes harder and harder to just let go and fly through a draft. I find myself putting some words on the paper. Then, when I look back at them I start to worry that they are not good enough or that my audience won&#8217;t like them, so I delete them. That makes for some pretty slow progress.</p>
<p>But who is my audience anyway? Me. Right now, I am the only person who needs to be happy with my work. It doesn&#8217;t matter if Candace down the street likes my story or if Jordan at work thinks my writing is crisp enough. I am my toughest critic and I am the only person I need to worry about at this point. I need to write what interests me and the story needs to excite me and me alone.</p>
<p>Coming to this realization (again, &#8217;cause really I already knew this) has been totally liberating. I am not worrying about what agents, or editors, or readers will think of the words I put on the page. I am not worried about reviews or rejections. I am not worried; I am just writing.</p>
<p>I am writing for me, and that is powerful.</p>
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1. My favorite bands are The Beatles and Aerosmith.  I can rock out to them all day and all night. But, I am not afraid to admit that I also kinda love Britney Spears. Her third album rocks my world on a regular basis. Also, I love me some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230;things you might not know about me:</p>
<p>1. My favorite bands are The Beatles and Aerosmith.  I can rock out to them all day and all night. <strong>But</strong>, I am not afraid to admit that I also kinda <em>love</em> Britney Spears. Her third album rocks my world on a regular basis. Also, I love me some Taylor Swift, but I don&#8217;t think people look down on that the way they do my love of Britney.</p>
<p>2. Soon, very soon, I will be starting a complete rewrite of<a href="http://rachelbateman.com/writing/incubus/" target="_blank"> <em>Incubus</em></a>. I promised myself I wouldn&#8217;t do this, but after a <strong>lot </strong>of thought, I have decided it is the right thing for the book. So yeah, I totally lied to myself. I will get over it.</p>
<p>3. When I was four, I thought I could be a cat. Apparently, I also thought cats walked around with their noses on the ground. My family made fun of me for the rug-burn on my nose for a long time. Now that I reminded them, I will surely be mocked again. Crap.</p>
<p>4. I am 99.99% sure I have Seasonal Affective Disorder (I am only not 100% sure because I don&#8217;t want to go pay someone to tell me what I already know and then try to throw pills at the problem-no thank you!). Basically this means I get depressed in the winter time. I sleep much longer than normal, but not well at all, so getting out of bed is one of the hardest chores I have. Also, it makes it so little things, like dropping my pencil at work, make me want to cry sometimes. It is no fun. It also means that, no matter how much I love Montana or how beautiful I think it is, it kind of sucks living here during the long winters.</p>
<p>5. I am 25, and my hair has never been longer than this:</p>
<div id="attachment_1293" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/new-car-009.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1293" title="Long hair" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/new-car-009-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">18 February 2010</p></div>
<p>I had to work real hard to grow it that long instead of just cutting it off. Hairstyles like this:</p>
<div id="attachment_1294" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/surgery-001.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1294 " title="Medium hair" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/surgery-001-300x225.jpg" alt="8 September 2007" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">8 September 2007</p></div>
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<p>and this:</p>
<div id="attachment_1295" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/random-624.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1295" title="Short hair" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/random-624-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">9 July 2006</p></div>
<p>have always been more common for me. And once (though I have been tempted to do it many more times than just one), I did this:</p>
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<p>Your turn! Tell me five random things about you.</p>
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		<title>Road Trip Wednesday: Granger Lovin&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 18:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday, YA Highway wants to know: If you could be any book character, who would you be? 
I had an epically tough time answering this one. Epically.
I am going to be really straight forward here: I lead a pretty boring life. There I said it. I don&#8217;t mean to say [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For this week&#8217;s Road Trip Wednesday,<a href="http://www.yahighway.com/2010/02/road-trip-wednesday-if-you-could-be-any.html" target="_blank"> YA Highway</a> wants to know: <strong>If you could be any book character, who would you be? </strong></p>
<p>I had an epically tough time answering this one. <strong>Epically.</strong></p>
<p>I am going to be really straight forward here: I lead a pretty boring life. There I said it. I don&#8217;t mean to say that boring in this case is a bad thing. It is just boring. Especially when I start to compare my life to the lives of all the characters I love reading about. Bubba and I have a happy, stress-free (for the most part) marriage. We go to work. We go to church. We play games. We visit friends. There is very little drama, and so far not one person/demon/monster/whatever has tried to kill either of us. Compared to many novels, our lives are quite dull.</p>
<p>So, when I tried to put myself into a character&#8217;s shoes, I couldn&#8217;t help thinking things like, &#8220;she has a pretty cool life, and it would be <strong>fun</strong>, but then I would have to deal with all that danger. I like my life to be pretty danger-free, so she is out,&#8221; and, &#8220;it would be <strong>great</strong> to be her! But, oh yeah, I forgot about that really devastating thing she has to deal with and all the struggles she faces, so I think not.&#8221;</p>
<p>Pretty much, I am a wuss and would like to stay comfortable. I can admit that.</p>
<p>But, I feel the need to answer the question somehow, so after much thinking I have decided that it would be pretty cool to be:</p>
<h3>Hermione Granger</h3>
<p><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Hermione_Granger_by_Airthai.png.jpeg.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1270" title="Hermione Granger" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Hermione_Granger_by_Airthai.png.jpeg.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="389" /></a>I know Hermione annoys a lot of people, not the least of all her friends, but I have always had a bit of a soft spot for her. She is smart, motivated, not afraid to be herself, compassionate, brave, awesome.</p>
<p>One of the things I admire most about Hermione is her intelligence. She is really super smart, but not just because she was blessed with some great gift. She works her <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">ass</span> hind-quarters off to achieve what she wants. She studies her brains out. When she can&#8217;t learn all that she can in a day, she adds extra hours to get more learning time (a little extreme? Yes).</p>
<p>I see way too many girls, both in books/movies and real life, who think that boys won&#8217;t like them if they are too smart so they dumb themselves down. Unacceptable! Hermione makes no excuses for who she is and doesn&#8217;t try to be someone else.</p>
<p>Another Hermione trait I love is her fierce loyalty. She never wavers on her support of her friends, even when they are not supporting each other. Even when one of them has hurt her. She is compassionate towards those whom most ignore or abuse (Neville, house elves, Luna, etc.), and she doesn&#8217;t consider appearances or how her actions towards those people will affect her social status. Hermione is just herself and never makes any excuses for who she is. There are not many people out there like that.</p>
<p>Yes, Hermione has to face some tough things. She loses people who are close to her and she is often in a lot of danger. She has her heart broken. So, pretty much she has to deal with all those things that I want to steer clear of in favor of my comfortable, boring life. But in the end she ends up with a man she loves (but never <strong>ever</strong> compromises herself for) and a happy life. And that is pretty awesome.</p>
<p>(For quite some time, Hermione is incredibly uptight. But she eventually learns balance and is able to let loose–and even break some rules–with her friends. I want to be post-uptight Hermione. <img src='http://rachelbateman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  )</p>
<p>***</p>
<p>I just learned that the lovely <a href="http://mysphereofdomesticity.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Kate Hart</a> would also be Hermione, for many of the same reasons I listed. She also brought up the fact that, in the movies, Hermione is played by Emma Watson, who aside from being beautiful and talented is just a good human being. I love Emma Watson.</p>
<div id="attachment_1271" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 410px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/celebrity-pictures-emma-watson-role.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-1271" title="Emma Watson" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/celebrity-pictures-emma-watson-role.jpg" alt="" width="400" height="400" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Yeah, I stole this off Kate&#39;s blog. What of it? <img src='http://rachelbateman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 23:29:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Things I love:
*Books that make my pulse quicken. The ones that grab me by the throat and demand I come along for the ride. I love that feeling when a book really starts to pull me in: that sense of urgency, adrenaline coursing through my body. When I don&#8217;t care how tired I will be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katy-mallon-12-16-stop-im-reading1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1263" title="Reading in the street" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/katy-mallon-12-16-stop-im-reading1-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>Things I love:</strong></p>
<p>*Books that make my pulse quicken. The ones that grab me by the throat and demand I come along for the ride. I love that feeling when a book really starts to pull me in: that sense of urgency, adrenaline coursing through my body. When I don&#8217;t care how tired I will be or how hard work will seem, I just want to stay up all night reading. I love books that have that power over me.</p>
<p><strong>Things I don&#8217;t love:</strong></p>
<p>*Finding out a wonderful man and beloved client passed away last night. <img src='http://rachelbateman.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Oh, Timothy!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 23:24:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do I love thee? Let me count the ways&#8230;


I love that you are the first car to ever have my name on the title.
I love that your fetching bumper feature makes it impossible to mistake another car for my own.
I love that you put up with me through all those long road-trips and concert [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>How do I love thee? Let me count the ways&#8230;</h3>
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<li>I love that you are the first car to ever have <strong>my</strong> name on the title.</li>
<li>I love that your fetching bumper feature makes it impossible to mistake another car for my own.</li>
<li>I love that you put up with me through all those long road-trips and concert tours.</li>
<li>I love that, when you decided you needed a new clutch, you waiting until <em>after</em> I got back home instead of giving up somewhere between North Carolina and Montana.</li>
<li>I love that when I lock my keys in you, I can easily climb through the unlockable trunk and let myself back in.</li>
<li>I love how patient you were when I used you to teach all my friends to drive a stick shift.</li>
<li>I love that you cost about 10 cents to register and insure.</li>
<li>I love your great, great, great gas mileage.</li>
<li>I love that you never once grumbled when we welded an old oil barrel to your muffler to patch up your exhaust system.</li>
<li>Most of all, I <strong>love</strong> that you were not upset, but rather relieved, when I told you about this:</li>
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		<title>The Benefits of Failure</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 15:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In 2008*, J.K. Rowling gave the commencement address at Harvard University. There is really nothing I can add to this; her speech is moving. Enjoy!**

J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement from Harvard Magazine on Vimeo.
*I just realized that this address was giving the same day Bubba and I got married. Perhaps even at the exact [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In 2008*, J.K. Rowling gave the commencement address at Harvard University. There is really nothing I can add to this; her speech is moving. Enjoy!**</p>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/1711302">J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/harvard">Harvard Magazine</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<p>*I just realized that this address was giving the same day Bubba and I got married. Perhaps even at <strong>the exact moment</strong> Probably not, but maybe.</p>
<p>**I know a lot of people just skip over videos in blogs (and I know that I already posted one video this week), but this is one you really should watch. Her advice is not just good for writers or new college graduates. What she has to say is <strong>powerful</strong> and applies to anyone. Seriously &#8211; watch it.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 15:30:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Again with the spoilerage. If you haven&#8217;t read Harry Potter and don&#8217;t want me to ruin it, stop reading here.

I mentioned to someone that I was planning Harry Potter Week, and they immediately said I needed to do a post about the books vs. the movies.
But here&#8217;s the thing: I am really good at seeing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Again with the spoilerage. If you haven&#8217;t read <em>Harry Potter</em> and don&#8217;t want me to ruin it, stop reading here.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I mentioned to someone that I was planning <strong>Harry Potter Week</strong>, and they immediately said I needed to do a post about the books vs. the movies.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">But here&#8217;s the thing: I am really good at seeing books and movies as the separate media that they are. I know that movie adaptations will not be the same as the book. There are things that can be done with the written word that cannot be done visually, and vice versa. A book can exist more in a characters head, whereas a film needs to be able to show what is happening. Movies often rely on a lot of action, but books can be quieter and have the same punch.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Books and movies will never be the same. By remembering this, we can all enjoy each medium to it&#8217;s fullest. So, when I watch a movie, I completely separate it* from the book it is adapted from. I pay attention to see if it is a good <strong>movie</strong>, not to see if it lived up to the <strong>book</strong>. Because let&#8217;s face it, a movie adaptation is never really going to live up to the book.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><em>Harry</em> <em>Potter</em> has another element working against it that many adaptations do not have. Some of those <em>HP</em> books are <strong>really freakin&#8217; long.</strong> It is not possible to fit all of the book into a movie**. Things have to be cut. I know this, so when I see the movies, I don&#8217;t let myself get upset if a scene I really enjoyed in the book didn&#8217;t make it to the big screen.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">That being said, there is one thing I really wish would have stayed in the movies: <strong>QUIDDICH!!</strong> After the first few films, we really don&#8217;t see much Quiddich going on (even when they go to the world cup in the fourth film, we don&#8217;t see much). Quiddich in itself is exciting, but I have a much deeper motive for wanting the sport to stay in the film. You see, in the sixth book, Harry and Ginny&#8217;s first kiss is spurred by the Gryffindor team winning the Quiddich Cup. With the Quiddich element, we get this as their first kiss:</p>
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<div id="attachment_1234" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Harry-Ginny-kiss"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1234" title="Harry &amp; Ginny Kiss" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Harry-Ginny-first-kiss-harry-and-ginny-823415_600_464-300x232.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="232" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I don&#39;t know who did this, but they are talented</p></div>
<p>The excitement! The passion! The shock on Ron&#8217;s face!</p>
<p>Without Quiddich, we get this stiff awkwardness instead:</p>
<div id="attachment_1235" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 501px"><a href="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Ginny-and-Harry-Kiss"><img class="size-large wp-image-1235  " title="Ginny &amp; Harry Kiss" src="http://rachelbateman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Ginny-and-Harry-Kiss-CLOSEEEE-harry-and-ginny-6328089-1280-560-1024x448.jpg" alt="" width="491" height="215" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">We&#39;ve been hot for each other for years, but let&#39;s not let any of that passion leak out.</p></div>
<p>Sigh. This kiss is the only part of the sixth movie that <strong>really</strong> disappointed me.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">*The only time I couldn&#8217;t do this was with <em>Inkheart. </em>I don&#8217;t know what it was about that book, but I could not let go of it when I watched the movie. Which is sad, because I am certain I would have liked the movie much more if I had been able to.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">**Whenever I tell people that they just can&#8217;t fit all of a book into a movie, they always tell me that Hollywood should make the movie longer. Um, yeah, that doesn&#8217;t work. Here&#8217;s why:</p>
<ul>
<li>Longer movies cost more to make</li>
<li>Longer movies cost more to ship (and theatres have to pay for that &#8211; they cannot afford too much)</li>
<li>Some people won&#8217;t go sit through a long, long movie</li>
<li>Longer movies cannot be played as many times in one day as shorter movies can</li>
</ul>
<p>Looks like the reasoning all revolves around money, doesn&#8217;t it? Well, it does. Movies are a business, and the powers that be need to do the best they can to make the business profitable.</p>
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		<title>Road Trip Wednesday: Vloggy Style</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 02:42:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Snogging</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 23:09:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Um, I should probably just state up front that if you haven&#8217;t read the Harry Potter books, are planning to, and don&#8217;t want any surprises ruined, you should just not read this post. 

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Um, I should probably just state up front that if you haven&#8217;t read the <em>Harry Potter<strong> </strong><span style="font-style: normal;">books, are planning to, and don&#8217;t want any surprises ruined, you should just not read this post. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">Harry Potter started out being all about the action. Sure, there was friendship and longing and identity issues and so forth, but the action too front and center.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">The later books are still action heavy, but there is another element in them. The characters are growing up and Harry &amp; Co. are starting to deal with their emerging hormones. In book four, they are awkward. They have crushes, and are even encouraged to have dates for the Yule Ball, but asking girls out? We get to experience the jitters, the sweaty palms, the  procrastination. When I read <em>Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire</em>, I can <strong>feel</strong> Harry&#8217;s nervousness when he goes to ask Cho to the dance. I can feel his hurt and embarrassment when she turns him down.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Throughout books five, six, and seven, the hormones continue to rage, and the characters become more and more lovestruck. Chemistry sparks, teasing us along for far too long, and then finally: <strong>SNOGGING!</strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Okay, I know Harry and Cho kissed in the fifth book, but let&#8217;s just skip that and move right onto the kiss we all waited for:</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">A roar of celebration erupted from the hole behind her. Harry gaped as people began to scream at the sight of him; several hands pulled him into the room.</p>
<p>&#8220;We won!&#8221; yelled Ron, bounding into sight and brandishing the silver Cup at Harry. &#8220;We won! Four hundred and fifty to a hundred and forty! We won!&#8221;</p>
<p>Harry looked around; there was Ginny running toward him; she had a hard, blazing look in her face as she threw her arms around him. And without thinking, without planning it, without worrying about the fact that fifty people were watching, Harry kissed her.</p>
<p>After several long moments &#8211; or it might have been half an hour &#8211; or possibly several sunlit days &#8211; they broke apart. The room had gone very quiet. Then several people wolf-whistled and there was an outbreak of nervous giggling.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">So instant and impulsive! <strong>I love it.<em> </em><span style="font-weight: normal;">I just adore how Harry, for once, takes control and doesn&#8217;t let his head get in the way of his heart. He is always thinking so much, weighing the pros and cons of everything. I think it is great that he doesn&#8217;t even think about kissing Ginny; he just does it. </span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong><span style="font-weight: normal;">(As an aside, I am definitely one for impulsive kissing. People: every once in awhile, just let your emotions take control. Don&#8217;t think, don&#8217;t dilly-dally, just do! It is fun, and intense, and liberating. (As an aside to my aside &#8211; do this within some limits. If you are married and you get an impulse to kiss the cute person you are sitting next to on the bus, I would recommend not doing that one. Unless that cute bus rider is your spouse.))</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Anyway, moving on. I was still a little bit high on the impulse of Harry and Ginny&#8217;s first kiss when the seventh book came out. What could possibly be better than Harry and Ginny finally getting together? Oh yeah, <strong>Ron and Hermione!</strong> &#8211; the only coupling I wanted to see* even more than Harry and Ginny. And then, to make it even better, their kiss was impulsive too:</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">&#8220;Hang on a moment!&#8221; said Ron sharply. &#8220;We&#8217;ve forgotten someone!&#8221;</p>
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&#8220;Who?&#8221; asked Hermione.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&#8220;The house-elves, they&#8217;ll all be down in the kitchen wont they?&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&#8220;You mean we ought to get them fighting?&#8221; asked Harry.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">&#8220;No,&#8221; said Ron seriously, “I mean we should tell them to get out. We don’t want anymore Dobbies, do we? We can’t order them to die for us –&#8221;</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">There was a clatter as the basilisk fangs cascaded out of Hermione’s arms. Running at Ron, she flung them around his neck and kissed him full on the mouth. Ron threw away the fangs and broomstick he was holding and responded with such enthusiasm that he lifted Hermione off her feet.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">“Is this the moment?” Harry asked weakly, and when nothing happened except that Ron and Hermione gripped each other still more firmly and swayed on the spot, he raised his voice. “OI!” There’s a war going on here!”</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Ron and Hermione broke apart, their arms still around each other.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">“I know, mate,” said Ron, who looked as though he had recently been hit on the back of the head with a Bludger, “so it’s now or never, isn’t it?”</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">“Never mind that, what about the Horcrux?” Harry shouted. “D’you think you could just – just hold it in until we’ve got the diadem?”</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">“Yeah – right – sorry – “ said Ron, and he and Hermione set about gathering up fangs, both pink in the face.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I love that these two kids finally let go of all their reservations and just hook up, despite of the war. I love even more that Hermione takes charge (it worked a lot better than all those subtleties she had been throwing around in the last three books) and does so because Ron finally shows some compassion towards the house elves &#8211; something she has been passionate about for years. It&#8217;s just great!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Yay for snogging!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">*I see a lot of people who are all for a connection between Ginny and Draco, or Hermione and Draco. There is even quite a bit of fan fiction written about this. I get the attraction: straight-laced good girl falls for dark bad-boy. It is dangerous; it is hot. But it is also <strong>completely out of character. </strong>That is all.</p>
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		<title>Weasley Loving</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s Harry Potter week on the blah-g this week! That means four posts this week are devoted to the wonder that is Harry Potter. Yay!

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<p>A couple of weeks ago, during the “Gender in YA” discussion on Twitter, there was a bit of discussion about dysfunctional families in Young adult literature. One commenter even went as far as saying that a young adult books need dysfunctional families and strained relationships in order to be interesting and have conflict.</p>
<p>I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I completely disagree with that thought. Dysfunctional does not equal interesting any more that stable equals boring.</p>
<p>Case in point: The Weasley Family.</p>
<p>The Weasley family is one of the most entertaining, interesting families I have read in years. They have conflict and drama aplenty, but they are still a stable family. There are two parents in the household; all the children are from those two parents; and while there is fighting, for the most part they support each other completely.</p>
<p>Even when one Weasley (*cough*Percy*cough*) decides to turn against the family, the love the rest of the family has for him is still apparent (even through the grumbling and the name-calling). The Weasley parents obviously raised their children to be close-knit; there is conflict and sibling rivalry, but also love.</p>
<p>So, it is safe to say the Weasleys are not your typical dysfunctional family (does it make anyone else sad to realize that dysfunction is so normal these days?). But they are still interesting. J.K. Rowling does not rely on dysfunction to create interest in the Weasleys, and I think the characters are stronger for it. Ms. Rowling had to find something inherently interesting about the Weasleys; she couldn’t rely on some great family conflict to create drama and interest for the characters.</p>
<p>And that is strong writing.</p>
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